Argument Politeness Level

[waterbugg]

A question just came to mind, if you are mad at someone, what politeness level do you use? At first I thought formal because you don't want to sound friendly, but then I though intimate because you don't want to show them respect. Please help me out.

[manyakumi]

That depends.
Each person's personality, each relationships and each situations, etc.

[manyakumi]

At first I thought formal because you don't want to sound friendly,

It's true when the relationship is originally intimate,

but then I though intimate because you don't want to show them respect.

And this is also right when the opponent is older than you.
It's not that hard to be heard 오빠 turns into 야! when some couple's fight.